The Joy of Being ” MOM “

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Becoming Parents and Becoming a Mom , is a Pretty Big responsibility … But When The kids are on their developmental stage or Growing up … Parenting becomes all the more tougher … Growing kids have their own behaviror which some times leads to some tough conditions . So Parent or specifically Mom needs to know what going on the Child’s mind  So If you are not Best Mom  Still just become a ” MOM ” … Here are some Tips …

Take charge. Children crave limits, which help them understand and manage an often confusing world. Show your love by setting boundaries so your kids can explore and discover their passions safely.

Don’t clip your child’s wings. Your toddler’s mission in life is to gain independence. So when she’s developmentally capable of putting her toys away, clearing her plate from the table, and dressing herself, let her. Giving a child responsibility is good for her self-esteem (and your sanity!).

Don’t try to fix everything. Give young kids a chance to find their own solutions. When you lovingly acknowledge a child’s minor frustrations without immediately rushing in to save her, you teach her self-reliance and resilience.

Remember that discipline is not punishment. Enforcing limits is really about teaching kids how to behave in the world and helping them to become competent, caring, and in control.

Pick your battles. Kids can’t absorb too many rules without turning off completely. Forget arguing about little stuff like fashion choices and occasional potty language. Focus on the things that really matter — that means no hitting, rude talk, or lying.

Parenting Style: Positive Parenting

Create Your Own Quality Time

Play with your children. Let them choose the activity, and don’t worry about rules. Just go with the flow and have fun. That’s the name of the game.

Read books together every day. Get started when he’s a newborn; babies love listening to the sound of their parents’ voices. Cuddling up with your child and a book is a great bonding experience that will set him up for a lifetime of reading.

Schedule daily special time. Let your child choose an activity where you hang out together for 10 or 15 minutes with no interruptions. There’s no better way for you to show your love.

Encourage daddy time. The greatest untapped resource available for improving the lives of our children is time with Dad — early and often. Kids with engaged fathers do better in school, problem-solve more successfully, and generally cope better with whatever life throws at them.

Make warm memories. Your children will probably not remember anything that you say to them, but they will recall the family rituals — like bedtimes and game night — that you do together.

  • The Joy of Being a MOM …

Don’t Forget to Teach Social Skills

Ask your children three “you” questions every day. The art of conversation is an important social skill, but parents often neglect to teach it. Get a kid going with questions like, “Did you have fun at school?”; “What did you do at the party you went to?”; or “Where do you want to go tomorrow afternoon?”

Teach kids this bravery trick. Tell them to always notice the color of a person’s eyes. Making eye contact will help a hesitant child appear more confident and will help any kid to be more assertive and less likely to be picked on.

Acknowledge your kid’s strong emotions. When your child’s meltdown is over, ask him/ Her , “How did that feel?” and “What do you think would make it better?” Then listen to him. He/ She ‘ll recover from a tantrum more easily if you let him talk it out.

 

Show your child how to become a responsible citizen. Find ways to help others all year. Kids gain a sense of self-worth by volunteering in the community.

Don’t raise a spoiled kid. Keep this thought in mind: Every child is a treasure, but no child is the center of the universe. Teach him accordingly.

Explain to your kids why values are important.  In India , Customs / traditions / Values are very important . So based upon these factors  teach your child the concept of Values . Pick some books like Panchatatra / Amar chitra Katha  and make it easy for kids to understand Concept called ” Values ”  “Morals “. 

 

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Author: Alpana's Kitchen

Journey from Kitchen to Soul ... Many stops , Many lessons .. Kitchen does not close ... Kitchen is always open and the learning stays ... Life is a Kitchen ... Bake , Broil , deep fry or Just enjoy this Kitchen

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